Men, unlike women, are more aroused by physical contact with a woman, by the physical components. For them, a woman’s appearance is very important. Although emotional components and the presence of a spiritual connection are important to women, they often turn a blind eye to physical imperfections. It is important for her to be sure that she is loved and that her partner will not leave her after sex. Arousal itself, sexual desire, is part of the strongest instinct: the instinct to procreate.
Here everything is transparent: if a woman becomes pregnant, then she will need a man's help in raising the child. And at this time, a man can impregnate countless females. It sounds cynical, but it's natureinstinctprocreation of a male line: leaving behind as many healthy descendants as possible. Therefore, a man's arousal has a simpler mechanism.
How does a man feel arousal?
It is not for nothing that they say that a man cannot reason reasonably when there is a woman nearby who excites him. He really starts to think worse at this point. Sexual Arousal Indicatorsfor men are:
- Erection. Perhaps the most striking and obvious manifestation. But an erection doesn't just happen when you're aroused: it can simply be a full bladder or a morning erection;
- Rapid pulse, thanks to this, breathing also becomes more frequent;
- Dilated pupils, the gaze itself becomes glassy;
- Changeusualstampvoice, he becomes hoarse and panting;
- Redness of the skin, a strong redness may appear on the face;
Arousal can build and build if intercourse does not occur immediately. But you should not drag out this game, otherwise the excitement will begin to subside or premature ejaculation will occur.
What exactly turns a man on?
It seems that all you need to do is undress and the man is ready. But not everything is so simple and real excitement is the result of a combination ofMany factors. One of them, of course, is that a man must find a woman attractive.
He determines this on some animal level.He is attracted tohis appearance, the timbre of his voice, his smell, his facial expressions, the plasticity of movements. But aside from that, certain actions, a woman's body and even the color of clothes can drive her crazy.
Actions that fascinate
There are actions on the part of a woman that can stir up an existing passion or even generate a new one:
- A woman's will to surrenderalways and everywhere, but only to a certain man. The realization that the partner is easy to get along with and that such a treasure is only in his hands fuels the man's desire.
- Spontaneous caresses, women's initiative. If she suddenly begins to caress him herself, and even in a place that is not entirely suitable for this, for example, in an elevator, then the man can completely lose his mind.
- View. A man can really be turned on by the inviting look of a woman, who says: "Come to me, try to conquer me, maybe I won't mind. "»
- Keep it new. Men are generally excited about anything new. A new possible sex location, a new style of clothing for his partner, his new perfume, his hairstyle.
- Stimulation of erogenous zones. Men have fewer of them than women, but they still exist. In addition to intimate places, it most often concerns the neck, auricle and abdomen.
- Wear sexy clothes. Whatever anyone says, men are turned on by certain clothes, even if they don't fit everywhere. These are mainly tight-fitting clothes made of thin fabric or leather, short minis and a deep neckline.
- Steps, in which the hips sway and the chest sways, will definitely excite a man.
- Beautiful plasticdancegirls with a beautiful figure. Especially if she slowly undresses while doing it.
Female body and arousal
First of all, a man perceivesoverall picture, like the totality of all physical data. And if the image catches his attention, then he looks at it and notes the details. Looking at certain parts of the body has a particularly stimulating effect.
Most often thisbuttocks and breasts. There are of course aesthetes who are excited by ankles or ears, but this is more of a peculiarity. What turns you on the most is very individual, some may be more turned on by breasts, and others by butts. Many people are still turned on by their stomach, and not by their abs, but by a small soft belly.
Sexual positions
Preference in poses depends ontemperamentin bed and on the partner's price.
- Missionary position. If it's sex between people who really miss each other, then the man will probably be more turned on by this position. This way he can caress the breasts, caress the hair and face and kiss the woman on the lips.
- Like a dogOrdoggy style. There is something animalistic about this position and this moment excites a man during sex.
- Girl on top, both facing the partner and vice versa. At the time of sexual intercourse, the woman controls everything: the depth of insertion, the rhythm and the moment of stopping, all this depends on her, this is what makes this position special. And the view that opens before a man will not leave him indifferent.
- Near the wall. There is something cinematic about this pose. Men like this position for its entertainment value, although in itself it is not very comfortable and the introduction is not maximal.
What is also particularly important is that a man likes to see his partner during sex, which is why he prefers all positions in which the details of what is happening are as visible as possible. And the light should be on and the partner should be completely undressed.
What colors can excite a man?
A naked body already excites you during sex. But before that, a man wants to undress a woman, first down to her underwear, then completely. It is also importantwhat colorShe will carry toiletries and underwear.
When choosing underwear and clothing, women need to know what men are most passionate about.red,blackAndpurplecolors of underwear and clothing. These colors promise a man experience and sensuality in bed. AwhiteAndbeigecolors excite those who like very young, inexperienced girls.
Why men are turned on by women's breasts
It's no secret that lush and high breasts excite almost every man. But if you think about it, what's so special about it, why, for example, doesn't another part of the body light up? From the point of viewbiology- this is the biggest mystery, in other mammals, breasts increase exclusively before feeding, and they do not attract males, only cubs. And in sexually mature women this rate is always increased and men respond with enthusiasm.
The reasonsthere can be several:
- In women, the nipples and breasts themselves are the strongesterogenous zone, and men want to arouse women by caressing their breasts.
- It is customary for people to hide their breasts and the forbidden fruit is sweet.
- Only people make love in front of each other.
- What are breasts?distinguishedman and woman and what is associated with feminine warmth.
- And also, most likely, the point here isinstinctprocreation. The main purpose of breasts is to nourish babies. And a woman's big breasts subconsciously tell her that she will feed her offspring well. But to be honest, in reality this is not always the case: the amount of milk does not depend on the size of the breast. This is what unconsciously attracts men. After all, the very desire to copulate is the desire to continue the breed, to leave offspring.